Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences
| Nominated | Best Actor | 2003 |
| Nominated | Best Score | 2003 |
| Nominated | Best Supporting Actress | 2003 |
Chicago Film Critics Association
| Nominated | Best Actor | 2003 |
| Nominated | Most Promising Filmmaker | 2003 |
Hollywood Foreign Press Association
| Nominated | Best Performance by an Actor in a Motion Picture - Drama | 2003 |
Independent Spirit Awards
| Nominated | Best Actor | 2003 |
| Nominated | Best First Feature | 2003 |
| Won | Best Supporting Actress | 2003 |
Los Angeles Film Critics Association
| Won | Best Supporting Actress | 2003 |
National Board of Review
| Won | Best Directorial Debut | 2003 |
| Nominated |
Best Picture |
2003 |
National Society of Film Critics
| Won | Best Supporting Actress (Runner-up) | 2003 |
New York Film Critics Circle
| Won | Best Supporting Actress | 2003 |
Screen Actors Guild
| Nominated | Best Actor | 2003 |
